My Husband and Best Friend Had an Affair Behind My Back, Then My Mom Told Me to Give Them My Kids

They say marriage is work. But I didn’t know it would mean just me working — for ten years straight. I met Daniel back in college. He wasn’t rich, but he had this smile, this way of talking that made you believe in him.

I came from a family that had money, but I promised myself I’d never live off my parents. Not a cent. When I graduated, I rolled up my sleeves and started my own business.

I paid the rent, the bills, the groceries. I covered everything. Daniel said it made sense — I earned more. But deep down, I knew something wasn’t right. I just didn’t want to admit it.

When I found out I was pregnant with Oliver, Daniel acted excited. He rubbed my belly and talked about baby names.

But when it came time to buy diapers, stay up all night, or cover hospital bills? That was all me. Every time. I kept telling myself it was a rough patch. That he’d step up.

Then I got pregnant again. When I told him, I expected shock, maybe even fear. But what he said left me speechless.

“I think I need a break from work,” Daniel muttered, not even looking at me. He was lying on the couch like he always did, a game controller in hand. “I’m burned out.”

I blinked. “You’re quitting? Now?”

“Just for a little while. You’ve got this,” he said with a shrug.

Got this? I was running a business, caring for a house, raising Oliver, and carrying another baby. I didn’t have a partner. I had a grown child who never helped.

Even worse, he started disappearing more and more. “Going to Mike’s,” he’d say, already walking out the door with that controller in hand.

“We’ve got a tournament.” And I’d be left alone, my feet aching, back sore, praying Emma would stop kicking long enough for me to fall asleep.

The only people who really showed up were my dad and Ava — my best friend since we were twelve.

Ava always checked in. She brought me coffee, asked how I was feeling. She even stayed with Oliver when I had meetings. I trusted her with everything. I called her my sister.

My mom? She just shook her head one day and said, “You’re the woman in the house. He works hard.”

“No, he doesn’t,” I snapped. “He plays video games every night.”

“You’re pregnant. You’re sensitive.”

“No. I’m tired,” I said quietly.

Then, one night, I was folding laundry when pain hit me hard. I called Daniel. Voicemail. Ava. Nothing.

“Please,” I whispered, holding my belly. “Not now.”

I called my dad. “I’m coming,” he said without pause.

He came, soothed Oliver, and rushed me to the hospital.

Emma was born at 3:12 a.m. My dad never left my side. Daniel didn’t show. Ava didn’t even text.

Ava showed up at the hospital around noon the next day. She came in like everything was normal. She smiled and held a bag of snacks in her hand, like that would fix things.

“I’m really sorry,” she said as she sat down. “Last night got kind of wild. I didn’t hear my phone.”

I looked at her. My heart felt heavy. My body was sore. I was holding my newborn in my arms.

“You didn’t see ten missed calls?” I asked. My voice was quiet but firm.

She looked down. “My phone was on silent. I was tired. I guess I just passed out.”

“But I needed you,” I said. “I was scared.”

“I know,” she said. “I messed up. But I’m here now. I brought snacks.”

I nodded, but my chest felt tight. Something inside me didn’t feel right. Her words didn’t sit well with me. I didn’t feel better.

Daniel walked in later that day. He didn’t bring flowers. No gift. Not even a drink.

“So… she’s here,” he said. He stared at Emma like he didn’t know what to do.

“She was born twelve hours ago,” I said.

“Yeah… I figured. But hospitals aren’t really my thing, you know?”

I didn’t say anything. I turned my face away. What could I say?

At home, nothing changed. Emma cried every night. Her little body twisted and kicked, and I couldn’t sleep more than an hour at a time.

Oliver needed help with his schoolwork, but I could barely think straight. I was breastfeeding around the clock. I was tired down to my bones.

My eyes burned. My hands shook. Daniel still disappeared every evening. “Going to Mike’s,” he’d say, grabbing his game controller, already halfway out the door.

One night, I heard Emma screaming from her crib. At the same time, Oliver called out from his room.

His voice was weak. I rushed in and found his forehead hot and damp. His cheeks were flushed. He was burning with fever.

I held Emma in one arm and pressed my hand to Oliver’s face with the other.

I walked into the kitchen, both kids crying. I leaned on the counter, shaking all over. I felt so alone.

“I can’t do this alone!” I yelled the moment Daniel walked through the door. It was after midnight.

My voice echoed through the hallway. Emma had just stopped crying. Oliver was asleep.

Daniel looked annoyed. He dropped his keys on the table and kicked off his shoes.

“You’re not alone,” he said, rolling his eyes. “I’m here.”

I stared at him. “You’re not here. You’re never here. I need help. I need a partner, not a third child.”

He shrugged. “I’ll get a job.”

“Either you get a job,” I said, my voice shaking, “or I’m leaving.”

He didn’t look at me. “Fine. I’ll look.”

The next morning, Daniel was in the shower. I heard his phone buzz on the sink. I looked at it without thinking.

It was a message from Ava.

You need to tell her. I’m pregnant. I can’t keep hiding this.

I froze. My stomach dropped. My chest felt tight. I just stood there, staring at the screen.

When Daniel came out of the bathroom, I was waiting. I held out his phone.

“What is this?” I asked. My voice was low. Too calm.

He looked at the phone. Then at me. He didn’t say a word.

“You slept with her?” I whispered.

He looked down.

“Ava?” I said again. “My best friend?”

Still nothing. Not a single word.

I started packing. I didn’t even think. I moved like a machine. Diapers, clothes, birth certificates.

I pulled a suitcase from the closet. Oliver stood in the hallway, rubbing his eyes.

“Where are we going?” he asked.

“We’re leaving,” I told Daniel.

He leaned against the wall. “You’re being dramatic.”

I didn’t answer.

We drove to my parents’ house. My dad met us at the door. He helped carry the bags. My mom stood in the kitchen with her arms crossed.

“Ava would never do that,” she said when I told her.

“She did.”

She looked away. “You should go back. The kids need their father.”

“The kids need peace,” I said.

She didn’t fight me then.

But the next morning, she walked into my room while I nursed Emma. “If you’re not going back,” she said, “maybe Daniel should get custody.”

I looked at her. “What?”

“You’re tired. You’re working. Daniel and Ava could raise them.”

I stared in silence.

“I’m just trying to help.”

I let out a short laugh. “You’re giving my kids to the woman who ruined my life.”

She didn’t respond.

I filed for divorce the following week. I didn’t waste time. I had nothing left to say to Daniel.

My father helped right away. He found me a lawyer, someone kind and clear. I told her everything.

She listened. She understood. Daniel didn’t argue. He didn’t try to stop me. He didn’t even act surprised. He just signed the papers and walked away.

Ava stayed quiet. I didn’t hear from her. But I saw her sometimes, near Daniel, standing too close.

Her face calm, her eyes proud. She didn’t need to say a word. She looked like she’d won. Like I was nothing now.

But I knew what they were waiting for. They were hoping I’d break. They were waiting for me to get tired, to give up, to let go.

My mother helped them in her own way. Every day, she found a reason to say the same thing.

“The kids might be better with Daniel.”

One evening, I sat in the living room, rocking Emma in my arms. My back ached. My eyes burned. My mother stepped into the doorway again.

“You should really think about custody,” my mother said as she stood in the doorway.

I looked at her, holding Emma close to my chest. “We’ve already talked about this.”

She stepped into the room. Her voice was soft, but her face was hard. “You’re overwhelmed. You work. You don’t sleep much. You have no time for yourself.”

I didn’t answer. I kept rocking Emma. My arms felt heavy, but I didn’t stop.

“Daniel and Ava could give Oliver and Emma something better,” she continued. “They could give them structure. A normal home.”

I stood up slowly, still holding Emma. “Why are you saying this again? What is this really about?”

She looked away for a second. Then she let out a long breath.

“I saw Ava,” she said. “We met up a few days ago.”

I froze. My stomach twisted.

“You what?” I asked.

“She told me she’s not leaving Daniel. She wants to be with him. She wants to raise their baby together.”

I felt a lump rise in my throat. “So, that’s the big plan?” I said. “She ruins my family, then takes over?”

“She said she wants a real family,” my mother replied. “I told her it would only make sense if Oliver and Emma were with them too. So the children could grow up with both parents and a sibling.”

“She wasn’t sure at first,” my mother went on. “But then I told her you’d be paying generous child support. That you’d want to do the right thing.”

I stared at her in shock. My voice cracked. “You offered my children to her? Like they’re some kind of gift?”

“I offered them a stable future,” she said, her voice cold. “They’d have a full home. A mother. A father. A baby brother or sister.”

I stepped back. I held Emma tighter. “You wanted to give my babies away. To the woman who destroyed my marriage!”

My father walked in at that moment. His eyes moved from me to my mother. “What’s going on?”

“She wants me to give Daniel full custody,” I said. My hands were shaking. “She made a deal with Ava.”

He turned to my mother. “Tell me that’s not true.”

She didn’t speak.

“Is that true?” he asked again, louder.

“I did what I thought was best,” she said. “Ava’s going to have a baby. They should be a family. Lisa would send money. The kids wouldn’t go without.”

“You sold our grandchildren,” my dad said. His voice was full of pain.

“I protected them!” she yelled.

“No,” he said. “You betrayed your daughter. Get out.”

She blinked. “What?”

“You heard me. You’re not welcome here.”

“You can’t be serious.”

“I am.”

She grabbed her purse and walked out. The door shut behind her. I sat down and held Emma close, my tears fell quietly.

Two months later, the divorce was finalized. It felt strange how something so life-changing could come down to a few papers and a couple of signatures.

But when it was over, I finally felt like I could breathe again. Thanks to the prenup, Daniel walked away with nothing — no house, no money, no claim to anything I had worked so hard to build.

I was awarded full custody of both Oliver and Emma. I didn’t ask for child support. I didn’t want anything from him.

My dad helped me move into a small but cozy place. That first night, I sat on the couch with Emma in my arms and Oliver resting beside me. The silence felt full — full of hope, full of peace. I felt strong again.

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